Disliked{quote} I think some people feel this to a great extent, some to only a small extent and others not at all? What also interests me is that when you ask the most successful, most experienced traders, trading really big, real money accounts (either their own or for their employers) about this, their answers are almost along the lines of "I don't think about the money at all: it's just numbers on a screen, to me." That's also what many of those "Market Wizards" interviewed by Jack Schweiger in his set of 4 books say. So maybe for many people, there's...Ignored
There's a lot of wisdom in your post that's unfortunately been overlooked. IMO, the whole "demo doesn't feeling real" needs to be turned on its head, i.e. real live trading should emotionally feel the same as demo trading. I didn't turn the corner until I adjusted how I was live trading to match how I felt demo trading. For example, reducing position size and leverage until I no longer felt any sting from losses.
Demo trading is also perfect for practicing the most essential skill to profitable short term trading: cutting losers and managing losing positions (which is so much more than just setting an SL)